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Good Enough is Sometimes Good Enough
Just a gentle reminder: This pandemic, and all of its fall out, is not about how strong you are. Or how put together you can be. You do...
Mary Beth Garvey
Nov 17, 20202 min read


The Opportunity in Self-Compassion
Self-compassion is not just some woo woo, feel good buzz word. When we are stretched and perhaps not our very best version of ourselves,...
Mary Beth Garvey
Oct 29, 20203 min read


Sisterhood, Crazy Kate & an Abundance of Gratitude
In my last post (some time ago), I promised the next thing I wrote about would not contain any of the 2020 content we are all so weary...
Mary Beth Garvey
Oct 1, 20204 min read


Acknowledging Surge Capacity
Most of us are weary of navigating the fall out and disruptions of this pandemic. Even those who are doing decently - at staying...
Mary Beth Garvey
Sep 2, 20201 min read


Hummingbirds, Woodpeckers & the Importance of Nuance
I am not a hummingbird. I'm an all or nothing, pick a lane, more is better, hold my ground, stab the bugs outta this tree with my...
Mary Beth Garvey
Aug 21, 20202 min read


Less Words. Just Listen
My husband works with a woman who has a set of business cards printed with simply the words Stop Talking. She discreetly slides them to...
Mary Beth Garvey
Aug 7, 20202 min read


Rabbit, Rabbit. Bring on the Good Fortune
Have you heard? The first day of the month is just around the corner, and if you wake and say out loud “rabbit, rabbit” before you say...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jul 29, 20205 min read


Temper Your Temper. At Least Pay Attention
Are you noticing that many people aren't at their best right now? I haven't lost my optimism about humankind, but I am definitely more...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jul 23, 20203 min read


Finding Our Way to Gratitude
If I were getting a report card on optimism and attitude over the last several days, I would not be thriving. In fact, I would be...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jul 19, 20205 min read


Brene Brown's Wholehearted Parenting
Is there anything, despite the uncertainty, that brings as much joy as parenting? Such delight in the little things, happiness in the...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jul 7, 20204 min read


Ode to the Wonderfully Weird & Wild Teenager
Well, hello, pandemic. And, hello, lots and lots of family time. Or Mandated Family Fun Time, as one of my favorites decrees it. Most...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 29, 20204 min read
The Spiritual Hospitality of Listening
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone who listens so attentively and intently that you feel like you are the only person that...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 26, 20204 min read


The Magic in Stillness
Like so many, I struggled with our shelter in place period. Among other difficulties, it was challenging to have life slow to a crawl,...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 19, 20203 min read


In Uncertainly, Foster Resilience
I recently read an article in The Atlantic, "What Happened to American Childhood, by Kate Julian, that reflected much of what I have seen...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 15, 20203 min read


Bookmarking a Memory
I received this photo from my dad with simply this comment: His obit may have read, "he always regretted not accepting Mary Beth...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 8, 20202 min read


Story Time: What Story Are You Telling Yourself?
One of the things I am most grateful for as a therapist is to be trusted with peoples’ stories. Stories are how we begin to understand...
Mary Beth Garvey
Jun 7, 20204 min read


Listen. Act.
Like many others, I have been painfully attuned to the senseless violence, the powerlessness and rage, and the inherent systematic and...
Mary Beth Garvey
May 31, 20204 min read


Be Fun and Funny, Even During a Pandemic
Being funny is highly valued in our family. I’m not saying we are all hilarious, but we provide each other with a generous and...
Mary Beth Garvey
May 26, 20203 min read


Gratitude for the Little Things
I received as a gift not too long ago a lovely little book by Brian Doyle, titled The Book of Uncommon Prayer, 100 Celebrations of the...
Mary Beth Garvey
May 22, 20202 min read


My Daily Basics, Sort Of
This is the daily to do list I made at the very beginning of our shelter in place order. I knew I needed some structure, as we all do. ...
Mary Beth Garvey
May 21, 20202 min read
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